What colour are your glasses?

Stephen R. Covey in his landmark book “7 Habits of Highly Effective People” defines 9 possible centres that people have: Spouse-centred Friends / Enemy-centred Family-centred Money-centred Work-centred Possession - centred Pleasure-centred Church-centred Self-centred In other words, these are the glasses we see the world through. All decision making is coloured by your bias towards one or more of these. But none of these are worth centring ones life around, they all blur the view.